2012年9月18日 星期二

How to fix your car

The long story started with having trouble rolling down the driver-side window, for several years. 

Last year, the door knob on the driver side started functioning weird. I was worried one day we would not be able to open the door.  So, I sent the car to Toyota dealer (TD) in town.  I did my oil change and asked TD to check the door.  Very soon, I received a call with an estimate $500 ~ $600 to fix the door.   I told the lady I wasn't sure if I wanted to spend that money now, but that I'd pick it up later that afternoon, aand then maybe bring it back later to have them fix it.
When I went to pick up the car, I was surprised to see a $50 charge for checking the door. I had no idea that I would be charged for the diagnosis/estimate. I questioned the charge, and she responded, "The $50 will be deducted from the cost when you bring it back to get fixed."

Months went by.  I called the TD and told them that I wanted to schedule an appointment for them to fix the window and that it was ok to order the window motor.  I asked the costs and mentioned the $50.  The lady responded “it has been too long” so I would not get the $50 off the price.  I told her I was not informed the refund had time limit.  She insisted "can not do it."
So, a friend recommended Hurst Firestone (HF) on the east side.  We took the car there and got it fixed for around $300.  When we picked up the car, HF told us the AXLE & Alternator drive belt need to be fixed.  Considering our out state travel plan, we let HF fixing it at cost around $430.

We ended up not driving the  Toyota out of town after all. So, I have the car.  A month later, I noticed the alignment was way to the right.  A friend recommended Coconino Motor (CM).  Since it is nearby (west side of town), I dropped my car to CM.
CM charged me extra $40 labor cost to "pull the wheel" for alignment and claimed it is beyond normal.  I never heard such a thing.  I have done alignment many times, and never been charged extra. Well, what can I say?  I ended up spent $109 for the alignment.  Meanwhile, CM told me the boot on the AXLE is torn, oil was all over outside the boot.  CM suggested I contact the shop (HF) soon since it might be still under warranty.

I was very concerned then.  
As soon I got my car back, I called HF.  HF sounds very doubtful when I told them what was found.  So, I sent the car to the shop.  Maybe after 5 minutes, I was told the boot was OK, but the seal was leaking.  It’s different issue.  HF told me they will put the cost together and call me with an estimate.
I left HF with a question - Either CM or HF is lying. 

Meanwhile, I felt the alignment seems still toward to the right, but not as serious.  So, I called CM.  CM said sometime the uneven tire would do it, & suggested to switch the left and right tires.  The following Monday, I went to CM at my lunch break.  I asked CM to show me the leaking boot.  So, I had a chance to see the leaking seal and leaking boot (compared to a normal one).
I called HF again.  I asked Bob, the owner, to look at the AXLE with me together, “..maybe you can tell me if it’s defective or it’s normal.”   He agreed.

I gave up another yoga classto go to HF.  As soon as we went under the car, luckily, we could clearly see a hole in the boot.  We both saw it.  No argument this time, and I was promised the AXLE will be replaced.  Also, a new seal will be put up for free.  And someone will drop me off and pick me up at work.  Before I left the shop, I asked HF to balance the tires, maybe check if rotation is necessary.  
I was waiting for the phone call to tell me my car is ready, but no phone call came.  About a quarter to 12, I called HF and asked if I can get the car at my lunch break.  Bob sent someone right away. The driver explained they were swamped that morning…  Ok, fine. I forgive them for forgotting to call me since I could have my car back at the time as they promise.

I walked into the store, and was just about to ask how much cost for the balance, when Bob said they did the rotation also (what? Without asking me? How much would cost me this time?).  Before I said anything, he continued “All the work we they have done today was for free.
I was surprised.  I did not mean to ask them to do extra work for free….  But he did say if car need alignment (or other jobs), bring it back.  Well, I hope my car would not have any trouble for a long time.  So, I just said “thank you” and left the shop.   

Later, I examined the receipt.  There is a hand writing “customer satisfaction warranty.”
Well, I was happy they fixed the seal and balance/rotating the tires for me – I had planned to do it anyway.  But the fact that I had to go to HF twice made me not happy.  Luckily, I went to CM, who tries to find some jobs for themselves, so the issue of leaking boot could be found.  If I went back to FH, the mechanic would not have found it.   Soon or later, we will have to fix the AXLE again. Losing the transition oil may damage the engine.  But I am not very happy about CM a bit too.  They told me the boot “was torn” – that kind of freaked me out.

Both places were recommended by friends.  From these back and forth checking, I learned that the more you know about car (issues), the more honesty you get from mechanics.   Maybe we should always have a second place to check previous job so we know the proper job was done. 
Oh, how about Toyota dealer?  Well, the place is out of consideration after this experience.  I will not go again.

2012年9月17日 星期一

當一天的員工

電影院的大老板為了激勵員工,承諾若員工逹到她要求的一個標準,員工可以選一個經理來當一天的員工。

"經理做一天的員工"是從我以前的大老板開始的。當他第一次提出來時,全公司上上下下都很興奮,很快地大家逹到目標。我聽說,他做員工那天,員工把平時最不喜歡的工作都派給他,還東挑西撿地,挑出任何最小的毛病。

現在的大老板也做了一次,之後,她宣布員工可以選。

原本,"經理做一天的員工"這樣的事,我是不在意的。想說,我不像其他的經理天天在公司,不會有人想投給我的吧。

但是我開始聽到員工在講要投給誰,我的名字不斷地被提到時,我就有點不自在了。因為,我進公司並不是從基層做起,一切都是邊做邊學,我剛進公司時,很多人並不服氣,認為我搶走了某些人內部升遷的機會。(我後來才知道。)

還好的是,從我開始上班以來,我對員工都很好,從來不會無故刁難(不像有些經理會以個人的喜好來對人),而且在員工忙的時候會下去幫忙。在員工有需要時不會推拖。

總之,我跟員工說,別選我啦。但不知為什麼,他們總說 “It will be fun to work with you”,嗯,我實在看不出那理會”Fun”

上周開票,不少經理的名字都出現了,我才在想有一絲希望不會是我吧,大老板接著開了好幾張我的名字。她邊念邊笑了出來(我真不知有什麼好笑的)。

幾個員工知道我被選中了,跟我說,會被選上的,不是員工最喜歡經理,就是最不喜歡的。她們很肯定我是前者。

不管是什麼原因讓員工選我,我還是担心了幾天,想著要用什麼樣的心態出現。

後來,我決定要表現得”positive””enthusiasm”

一早,有點緊張,我接了幾個客人點了一大堆東西,在我旁邊的員工一邊聽客人點的東西,一邊就默默地就把東西遞過來了。小組長派工作時也不會派給我(他們有很多機會給我一些額外的工作);當班經理則完全沒有找我麻煩。

安全過完一天,我心中挺感激今天合作的同仁。今天也證明,平常我待人的方式,得到回饋了啦。

有一些嚷嚷著要和我一同工作的員工今天沒有排到班。下回開會要建議,不要再用選的了。萬一又被選上就不好了。還是讓其他經理來輪輪吧。

2012年9月15日 星期六

自己一個人

董仔搬到加州已經一個月了。

還很清楚地記得,自己從加州搭機回來的那個下午。

董仔陪我在機塲一起等上機。上機時間快到了,我進了等待檢查的隊伍,董仔只能在線外看著我。

當輪到我拿證件給檢驗的警衛時,意味著我們真的要分開好一段時間了。不捨的眼淚不爭氣地在眼眶內打轉。

離開他時,我說,我真不想留下你一個人自己走。董仔神色黯然,雖然沒說什麼。

在過闗的過程,我頻頻回頭,因為我跟著動線移動,董仔也不斷移動,才能看到我。想不到,我的行李要被檢查,心情已經够壞了,這時,已經無法裝作沒在哭。檢查行李的老警衛,拿出我包包裏忘了倒掉水的水壺,(那時,早忘了那瓶水)好意地說,"我幫你倒掉水,再幫你把包包從這裡再掃描一次,這樣你就不用重新排隊了。"

我把眼淚擦掉,只能點點頭,連謝謝都說不出來。

我又回頭看一下董仔,此時,好像董仔站在那裏太久了,有個警衛去跟他說話,董仔跟我揮揮手,在那警衛的注目下離開了。

想不到,自己是那麼的脆弱。當初作這樣的決定時,沒有想到會是這麼難!回到租處,因為思念,又哭了二晚。

我們天天通電話。

前天,我跟董仔說,"好多人都問我,你現在怎麼樣了?喜不喜歡新的地方新的工作。我說,你沒跟我抱怨工作,但也沒跟我說喜歡那裡。"

終於,董仔說,他想回來小鎮,工作環境爛一些沒闗係,但他可能會快樂些。

這是多麼不實際的說法?我不得不指出現實上會遇到的狀況,絕對會是個錯誤的決定!但是我還說,你想清楚,如果你真的相信你回來小鎮會快樂些,那就回來吧。後來,他才又說,你搬來,我才會快樂。

這樣,又讓我很捨不得了。巴不得天亮就上飛機去找他….

現在,自己一個人,下班了,不想回到租處。留在辦公室的時間越來越晚;周末,自己去晃晃,有時,會到downtown的bar,自己點了一杯啤酒,幾樣小菜。

以前常看到一些人,自己點一杯酒坐在酒巴外的桌旁,看起來真悠閒。

可是我呢,卻覺得無聊。現在,連自己去看電影都覺得無聊。

董仔呢?瘋狂地工作。

用工作把沒有我的時間填滿。常常他在電話中的聲音聽起來很疲憊。

真是不健康啊。

老夫老妻,平時也沒有什麼激情了,也不太會甜言蜜語了。但是,這一次的分離,讓我體會到,原來我們彼此是那麼地互相依賴和依戀。

2012年9月9日 星期日

今年的生日

結婚十四年(啊,時間過得好快啊),第一次過生日時董仔不在身旁。心中有準備,可能要一個人孤孤單單地過了。可是,今天,朋友的友情讓我意外,又十分的感動。

上周和朋友益群去逛藝術展,我為自己買了一副耳環當作生日禮物。今天,益群找我出來吃午飯慶生,又一起去逛在市中心的車展。二人快樂地過了一個下午。

回到家時,收到董仔寄來的卡片。他的文筆一向很好,卡片中的思念之情,我也一樣。讀著讀著,就哭了。

(才在感動他的細心,看到郵票貼快遞,果然一如往常,他又忙到時間不够了,只好寄快遞)。真是。

上周,朋友Shelley講好要找大伙晚上去她家喝酒。今天剛好房東來裝床頭,所以我弄晚飯的時間就晚了。她約的時間到了,Shelley text 問我會不會去她家,我回說會啦。

我到時,晚了半小時,進了門,怎麼客廳冷冷清清的(大家都晚到嗎?難到沒什麼人來,所以問我會不會去啊?)我心裡才這麼想著,幾個朋友,冬梅,Helen, Mandy, Seonmin 就從樓梯間跳出來,說"生日快樂"!

我真是太驚訝了。不久,Jon 和Lucy帶著禮物出現了,Lucy 用她那稚嫩的聲音跟我說”Happy Birthday”,還在我的臉頰上親了一下,太sweet 了啦.

拆完禮物,大伙聊著天,意外地,Shelley端出一個點了蠟燭的派。此時,我真覺得太不好意思了。這本來是她的Party,怎麼成了我的Party了呢?

Shelley說了,這是董仔買的,托她去店裡拿的。

真是感動啊。我以為我又要哭了。

回家的路上,接到董仔的電話,董仔說,派沒有訂我最喜歡的那一家,是因為離Shelley家太遠了,已經用她的Party來順便過我的生日,已經很不好意思了,不好再麻煩她跑那麼遠。(這解釋了我的疑問-為什麼沒訂我最喜歡的那一家)。

了解。我也是這麼想。

今天,心中充滿了友誼的溫暖,和老公的愛心。

覺得,好幸福!